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A Chair for the Other Side

Twelve Questions That Make Room for a Better Argument

by Ivo Brandt

Why does a reasonable person disagree with you about a promise, an apology or a fair share? Twelve vivid ordinary dilemmas become invitations to think with greater courage and less certainty. Each chapter seats the strongest opposing argument first, then discovers what both sides can teach us.

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At a crowded table, the most difficult guest is often the person who has a good reason to disagree. Give that guest a chair. In A Chair for the Other Side, Ivo Brandt takes twelve old questions into recognizable rooms: a parcel at a door, a changed promise, a deceptively kind sentence, a shared loaf, an apology that does not erase a hurt. He asks what it means to know something, remain the same person, choose freely, help a stranger, judge a lucky outcome, live well and forgive. For every comfortable answer he makes room for its cleverest objection. The result is not a list of verdicts. It is a way to argue honestly when the stakes are human and the answer stays unfinished. Illustrated with bold conceptual drawings, this book is for readers who enjoy leaving a conversation with a sharper question than the one they brought. It offers intellectual hospitality: confidence to take a position, imagination to hear resistance, and patience to return to the table tomorrow.

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Chapter One

What Can You Really Know?

At five in the afternoon you hear a knock. By the time you reach the door, the corridor is empty. There is a parcel on the mat. You tell your friend, who is waiting inside, that the delivery person has gone. Your friend asks how you know it was a delivery person.

This is an irritating question, which makes it a promising one. You heard a knock and found a parcel. A delivery is the ordinary explanation. You did not see a uniform, a vehicle or a face. A neighbour might have brought the parcel up from a lobby. Your friend might have arranged a surprise and then decided to test your patience. None of these possibilities is likely. But when you said you knew, did you mean there was no other possibility?

The strict answer has a certain beauty. To know is to be beyond error. If another story fits what you observed, you have a reasonable guess, perhaps even a very good belief, but not knowledge. This view protects a word we use with enormous confidence. We ought to reserve that word for cases where the floor cannot give way beneath us.

Let us offer the strict view its chair. If someone told you the parcel contained a fragile gift because they felt sure, you would want to know what they had seen. If they had merely guessed from its size, you might object to the word know. Certainty matters when another person is about to rely on your claim. The desire for a firm boundary between knowledge and confidence is more than pedantry. It is a courtesy to those who must act on what we say.

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Book details

Author
Ivo Brandt
Categories
Philosophy, Self Improvement
Type
Non-Fiction
Format
EPUB and PDF, DRM free
Language
English
eISBN
978-629-7122-50-2
Released
2026-10-14
Catalogue code
EQ-0294